The most romantic man in the world -- The end of the honeymoon -- How he gains control-weapons -- Where he gains control-arenas -- What keeps women hooked? -- How men learn to hate women -- How women learn to love women-haters -- Madness for two -- How are you feeling? -- Preparing for change -- Healing the past -- Taking charge of your anger -- Setting limits with your partner -- Getting professional help -- Knowing when to leave -- Finding yourself again.